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    婚外情的最致命之處

    時間:2014-09-04 / 點擊:次 / 文章投稿

      但愿此文能給在婚姻中、感情中覺得迷茫的人一些清醒,一些更正確的人生考慮。但愿世人都能獲得美好的感情,快樂、幸福地度過此生。

      在現在這個年代,不止是在電視劇上才能看見婚外情的事例,而是在現實生活中這樣的事例就多不勝數。

      所謂的婚外情,前提是已經是在婚狀態,才又發生新的戀情,在中國這個傳統的社會里,人們還是很鄙視婚外情這種不道德的行為。而這種行為因為從一開始建立在不道德的起點上,也注定了其結果是不被人祝福的。

      由于婚外情存在著一種偷著去愛的刺激,會使人覺得有別樣的感情,通常人陷入了這種感情里面,是很難自撥的。人的感情是會依著人的轉變而轉變的,這種轉變就是當你把感情放在了婚外情——-第三者的身上之后,對于原來的原配則是沒有了感情,從而變成麻木。并加速讓原來的感情死亡,最后美其名日地說夫妻沒有感情,夫妻關系名存實亡,因此分開!

      這是一種很不負責任的行為,如果沒有感情,當初為什么要結婚?當初既然那么肯定地要結婚,就要對這種行為負責!當走到中途了,你才突然拋下另一半走人,而自己有了更美好的感情而不顧對方的死活,有這樣的道理嗎?

      在婚姻中因為自己的行為背離了道德的行為準則,那么,人是很難在社會上立足,也會遭眾親遠離,最終的結果,是被人人指責之余,也會導致你一無所有的結局,如果只是自己失去掉了一切那不算是最可悲的下場,最怕是導致原配自殺,又或者原配殺掉孩子再自殺的這種悲劇!這是生命的代價啊!

      走入婚外情的人是沒有理智的,在他的眼內只有美好的感情構造,他會把感情的世界幻想得很美好,如果在現實之中出現阻欄的情況,他有可能就不顧一切不要一切拉著情人去私奔,不惜一切代價要在一起,他沒有想過,最終的下場會怎么樣,人離不開現實的生活,離不開物質,當一切都沒有了,一切都不要了,你怎么生活?怎么活下去?如果當你到了中年的時候,你還有信心再重新面對生兒育女的問題?你累不累?就算你不累,重新開始生活組織家庭也會把你拖累。

      不要拿和原配沒有感情開去開展婚外情,如果真的沒有感情了,就分開,給大家一個重新開始的機會,這樣也許對大家都是公平的,然后,再從正軌上重新去開展感情,這樣的開始是建立在道德行為允許的范圍內,才會是被大家接受的,也不會傷害到誰。

      以前的社會體制是允許男人三妻四妾,現在的社會一夫一妻制,但也同樣存在一部份富商男人有著三妻四妾,但他之所以沒被人鄙視那是因為他沒有始亂終棄,沒有拋棄掉原配的,而他有這個能力讓這三妻四妾都生活都很愉快很幸福,于是,他反而就成了別人眼內的成功男人,可悲乎?可笑乎?

      在愛情的世界里沒有誰對誰錯,愛對了,就是對的,愛錯了,就是錯的。誰都有權利去追求自己的幸福。

      如果選擇了結婚,就走到盡頭吧。婚外情只能是一時帶給你快樂,但不能從根本上帶給你快樂。

      在感情上真正的快樂是來自于兩人沒有違反任何道理標準的行為上開始的,然后在眾親人的祝福中走向幸福的殿堂。在兒女的照顧中安度晚年,在兒孫的笑聲中走過暮年。這就是人生,這就是幸福!

      而走向婚外情的人,就好像偏離了人生的正常軌道,走向一條傷心的路,當你聽到親人的指責聲,你一定會低下頭,當你聽到兒女的責罵聲,你一定會傷心,當你晚年的時候,兒女們不理你,孫兒們不見你,你一定會老淚縱橫悔不當初。

      其實,不論窮人或富人,不論男人或女人,都應該遵守這個社會對感情的潛默則。

      對感情負責,從一而終吧,婚外情的最致命之處不單是毀了目前擁有的一切,即使你可以為了婚外情結束掉目前的一切,包括你現在的幸福家庭和事業,但是……意味著你的一生也結束了,因為,你沒有了將來。一個沒有將來的人生,是沒有希望!婚外情的最可怕之處,不是沒有現在的一切,而是沒有了將來!

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